Successful Family Building Starts Here
The path to parenthood for gay men most often requires the involvement of a surrogate or gestational carrier and an egg donor. This necessitates the need for in vitro fertilization (IVF). RMA of CT works with you to develop a customized treatment plan to meet your needs and to make sure you are educated and comfortable each step along the way.
Finding a surrogate or gestational carrier is something you will explore with our Gay Parents To Be Team. Your surrogate or gestational carrier will have no genetic link to the baby that they will carry for you. Still, she will need to be screened for reproductive and psychological health and infectious disease. There are at least two options for finding a surrogate/carrier; using an agency or using a Known Carrier (family member or friend).
You have several options for finding an egg donor, including the RMA of CT donor pool, working with an agency or egg bank, or securing a frozen embryo. Egg donors are screened for reproductive health, genetic conditions and/or diseases , psychological health and infectious disease.
If you or your partner choose to be the genetic father (sperm donor), you will need to have a physical exam completed by your physician and a series of blood work. We will also work with you to choose an agency for a gestational carrier who is also screened for reproductive and psychological health.
Once you are matched with a donor and carrier, the eggs have been successfully retrieved and an embryo has been formed, it will then be transferred into the carrier’s uterus. Pregnancy can be detected 11 to 12 days after transfer. To learn more about this procedure, click here.
