Fertility Medications Secret Handshake - Fertile Yoga Revelations
Fertile Yoga Revelations and Hilarity
We have the oddest conversations sometimes in Fertile Yoga. Very, very odd. And sometimes so funny that it's almost impossible to stop laughing.
For this one, you really need to visualize it.
Secret handshakes and fingers that shoot fireworks. Yes, from grown ups.
I have permission to share this one. I asked about sharing it here and she was fine with it. So cool with her own playfulness. I love that.
One of RMACT's patients and an ardent Fertile Yoga student gave me permission to share this so that you could enjoy and perhaps even try, on your own, in your own home.
I understand that there is often a special dance done as well as the handshake and firework hands but she was unwilling to share this with our group this evening. Or rather, she described it, but was unwilling to demonstrate it.
You cannot make this stuff up.
Infertility can make us crazy. Evidently it can also make us laugh. And make us hopeful. And make us silly. And playful. And connected. And more.
Fertility Medications: Secret Rituals
Secret handshakes after fertility medication injections. It involved slapping of hands, sometimes, a version of pattycakes, sometimes, and more. Fireworks, think of hands with fingers upright to the sky, with up and down and back and forth movements.
You cannot make this stuff up.
I have one question.
Why not have fun? Why not be playful? Why not a ritual that has two partners acting as co-conspirators?
We were discussing rituals around doing medications and inviting the pregnancy to happen. Very scientific. Not.
I have another question.
Rituals are comforting. They are soothing to the soul. And evidently they can also be playful, joyous and fun.
What could possibly be wrong with that?
One of my best friends' husband always kissed her right where he was going to inject the medications. Yep. On her rear end, bringing a whole new meaning to the term, "kiss my a**". That made me laugh. It made a lot of us laugh. The fact that it was loving and tender was an added benefit.
One of my Fertile Yoga students visualized each injection bringing her baby closer to her and her husband. Also sweet, tender and very poignant. So much better than resenting the heck out of the injections and medications.
If I had it to do over again, I'd go with the silly handshake.
And the fireworks shooting out of my finger tips.
And the dance.
I might even add in a shimmy or two.
About Lisa Rosenthal
Lisa has over thirty years of experience in the fertility field. After her personal infertility journey, she felt dissatisfied with the lack of comprehensive services available to support her. She was determined to help others undergoing fertility treatment. Lisa has been with RMACT for eleven years and serves as Patient Advocate and the Strategic Content Lead.
Lisa is the teacher and founder of Fertile Yoga, a program designed to support men and women on their quest for their families through gentle movement and meditation.
Lisa’s true passion is supporting patients getting into treatment, being able to stay in treatment and staying whole and complete throughout the process. Lisa is also a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist, which is helpful in her work with fertility patients.
Her experience also includes working with RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association and The American Fertility Association (now Path2Parenthood), where she was Educational Coordinator, Conference Director and Assistant Executive Director.